Narcissism and Trump

To the Editor;

Narcissus was a young man of Greek mythology who upon seeing his own reflection in a pool instantly fell in love with it and died, refusing to look at anything else. A narcissist basically is someone who is filled with self-importance and needs to be the center of attention.

This in itself is not something bad; we have all encountered people who think they are a “cut above” everyone else. Narcissists can drift into aggressive behaviors when they are challenged or when someone disagrees with them. Name calling, insults, being deceptive and refusing to admit when they are wrong are characteristics of the extreme narcissism. There is only one way to deal with an extreme narcissist, and that is to refuse to debate or interact with them. This is not cowardice but a refusal to allow the presence of ranting behavior.

Donald Trump has “trumpeted” himself throughout the primaries in self-importance, seemingly without regard for others. Just think of four years and the contentious issues that will be facing the person elected. This man cannot become president of the United States and set the tone for our country. I can perceive the U.S., the Bedford Falls of “It’s a Wonderful Life,” becoming a Pottersville under his influence.

You may disagree with me, but before you rule me out find out more about narcissism and see whether what I said adds up.

David B. Lockwood
Dover-Foxcroft